tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5758883495230409403.post2441078766643358104..comments2023-06-27T05:03:04.891-07:00Comments on I Hate Planning My Wedding: Welcome! (NOTE: That's the cheeriest thing you will read in this post.)Engaged & Enragedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14706029714871812087noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5758883495230409403.post-12650545914165517422012-12-12T19:12:05.575-08:002012-12-12T19:12:05.575-08:00I'd like to voice a complaint. It's going ...I'd like to voice a complaint. It's going to sound ridiculous, but now that I've found a blog and a group of people that are also NOT enjoying their journey to bridehood, I feel like it's alright to bring up. You mentioned all those websites and magazines that make you feel bad about yourself. I feel that exactly, but to a slightly different degree. I wear glasses. I have worn them most of my life and I do not intend on taking them off for my wedding day. I have yet to find ANY bridal website, magazine, TV show, or movie that portrays a bride with glasses. In fact, in most cases in the media, a woman is often seen as more beautiful AFTER someone removes her glasses.<br /><br />Like I said, it's stupid, but it really bothers me. <br /><br />Thanks for letting me rant.<br /><br />And I'd like to clarify that I am very much looking forward to being a wife. I'm dreading being a bride.Katienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5758883495230409403.post-17663864717351341032012-03-20T08:25:48.449-07:002012-03-20T08:25:48.449-07:00I'm so glad that I'm not the only one that...I'm so glad that I'm not the only one that feels this way about planning. Your blog is making me feel normal again!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5758883495230409403.post-70367011758746638172011-01-27T20:23:55.824-08:002011-01-27T20:23:55.824-08:00Monica! You're not alone. I'm a month on ...Monica! You're not alone. I'm a month on the job and already having mixed emotions on whether a wedding is REALLY worth it. I wish I could hand it all off to a wedding coordinator, but then I think, Aren't I paying enough for this dang party already?! <br /><br />Good luck to you! Cheers.<br /><br />Adrienne, Los AngelesAdrienne Michellenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5758883495230409403.post-23248230137970370932011-01-15T12:50:53.586-08:002011-01-15T12:50:53.586-08:00I love you. I posted on the Knot about how weddin...I love you. I posted on the Knot about how wedding planning sucks, venue searching sucks, how everyone in the industry wants to suck out every penny and iota of sanity you have. All the responses were to the effect that I was an ungrateful bride to be who can't see the bliss in the planning of the "most amazing" day of my life. To them I say: Suck it. To you I say: THANK YOU!monicanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5758883495230409403.post-19593091696248683232010-06-02T13:05:44.182-07:002010-06-02T13:05:44.182-07:00I just started and this is HELL. I'm so happy...I just started and this is HELL. I'm so happy to see this here. Most of my friends thought it was the best time of their lives. I can't understand what's wrong with me. I just want it to be over and I can't imagine having to think of all the little things I still have to think about! Nightmare!EG19https://www.blogger.com/profile/06945598261869072075noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5758883495230409403.post-61949259641382577382010-05-18T08:07:29.751-07:002010-05-18T08:07:29.751-07:00Your blog is music to my ears. I was starting to t...Your blog is music to my ears. I was starting to think there was something wrong with me.. I just started planning my wedding and I am already miserable. I am not happy with one thing so far... everybody sucks. I see countless cocktails in my future to help me go through this without causing a 'scene'. lolVhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08393441378972165022noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5758883495230409403.post-31412518427462396362010-04-30T06:39:48.868-07:002010-04-30T06:39:48.868-07:00Just found your blog and this is my exact same sto...Just found your blog and this is my exact same story, I am SO RELIEVED that I am not the only soon-to-be-bride that feels this way. Fiance who dreams of eloping... family in two different states... we met and dated in one city, but then got engaged and moved to another... toss money and budgets into the mix and wedding planning is a nightmare. I'm looking forward to reading more!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5758883495230409403.post-89650090696462848832010-03-12T10:41:03.307-08:002010-03-12T10:41:03.307-08:00so happy that I found your blog. I just started p...so happy that I found your blog. I just started planning too. it sucks. and everybody sucks too. had the engagement party a few months ago...my family (about 10 pple) came over to my fiance's parents home (they hosted), and didn't bring a single gift for my and my fiance (whilst everyone else who came to the party did bring something). At some point, it was decided (not by me or my fiance) that there would be a "gift opening hour"... really embarrassing...Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03358512797333456716noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5758883495230409403.post-4763363544437154052010-01-27T23:40:58.029-08:002010-01-27T23:40:58.029-08:00I am just starting and already want to pull out my...I am just starting and already want to pull out my hair. I was thinking something must be wrong with me! So glad to see your blog and know that it's not just me! Thanks!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5758883495230409403.post-69059493244941411872009-01-04T07:45:00.000-08:002009-01-04T07:45:00.000-08:00just found your blog and I have to tell you that I...just found your blog and I have to tell you that I LOVE it!!!! You are currently living my life about a year ago....planning our wedding was HELL for me and I thank God everyday that it is OVER!! I guess having a crazy mother-in-law did not help! Anyway, mojitos is what got me through!!!! *HUGS*Mojito Mavenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08269574305314826326noreply@blogger.com